don't know about you... but for me, I find tremendous value in developing and nurturing friendships that I encounter cos the world is cyclical, and we are all beings...loving, exploring and experiencing each other.And I've been fortunate enough to have the men in my life maintain our friendship. This, I've found, to be more valuable as opposed to building on a spark that may or not exist (at least for now).
I sent the above to someone I've been crushing hard on, as a last hurrah, I suppose.
Don't know about you but I absolutely hate crushes. They're fun to begin with, you blush when they call, get all giddy and distracted from life's stupidities and inconveniences and very soon, they become one of life's stupidities and inconveniences. I have been trying to detangle why this particular geezer is not budging for me. I mean, everyone budges for me, I am not super hot, but I'm intelligent, well-spoken, slightly well-traveled and have a wicked sense of humor. Then, I recalled a certain conversation we had.
He said, when he's in love with someone he finds it hard to get with another person. It's just not possible. Endearing, you might say. But a clue that he's not getting with me because he's clearly enamored, totally infatuated with another person. Hence, why I sent the note above. We may not be able to build on a non-existent spark but we can develop a friendship that may be rather endearing. People forget that sometimes it's the friendships you create along the way that make up the composition of your love network.
