Found this on one of my favorite websites - Single Edition. It was under the section, "How to get over someone." Since February is "the National Break Up" month, they thought it would help those that have recently broken up, get over their recent exes.
The paragraph below was particularly poignant to me considering how many long winded emails I've written and posted on here to the same "asshole." I just wish someone had shown me this paragraph before I ventured to pour my heart out and you know how hard that is for me. But now I know and...I won't make that same mistake again. People that get love nine times out of ten don't deserve it or know what to do with it. And if the tables were turned as in if it were a man that wrote a heartfelt email to a woman she would eventually falter. But men have that impermeable heart, like rock solid that refuses to thaw. It's insane.
Anyway, for any reader who is going through a breakup, here you go, the rest of the article is pretty good too:
Remember, There’s No Convincing: Once someone makes the decision to move on, there’s no selling them on a relationship that they don’t think is right for them. Those long winded emails or late night (house) calls may make you feel better but they will not bring your ex back into your arms for longer than a night. So step away from the computer, do away with the cell phone and don’t try to get inside that person’s heart, head or bed thinking you can persuade them into being with you. If they want to come back to you, you trying to overtly force the issue can be counterproductive. Handle yourself with poise and if a reconnection is there, it will happen.
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