Watching Being Mary Jane and feeling her discomfort at being seated on the same table with her lover’s wife. I can so relate. At least she knows who the other woman is. And knowing her, and how intelligent, sophisticated and relatable she is, that causes her even more discomfort.
If I had a man, would I want to know the other women he’s currently with? Certainly. I would love to know. I want to know how his mind works as far as it goes with the other women. Does he like intelligent, cerebral, mind-blowing powerful women that make you want to aspire to be like them? Or does he like to keep it hood, ghetto, granola or just plain ole down south and simple? Does his mind work that way? Does he feel most comfortable with women when they are 10 steps below him or 10 steps above him? Then, there are other physical attributes which I am never too concerned about.
I feel like sex and companionship goes to the mind. When you schtupp someone you not only schtupp their body, you schtupp their mind, and if there’s no mind to escape into, get blown away by, you’re just schtupping the body, stuck on the physical and if that’s what turns him on, then, maybe he needs a different escape, a different way to get his high. Because schtupping a hot body with no brain, that’s just a temporal shallow high, that expresses his maturity level, or lack thereof.
But I would most gladly want to know. Is he slumming with me or do I represent the “Hampton of Women” for him? Is he shallow and craving the tight ass to rock his body high? Then, if he is, maybe, just maybe, I’m not using my mind to schtupp him right? Or maybe, he just hasn’t had his mind blown away with a good ole fashioned cerebral schtupp.
In any case, I want to know what type of jungle I’m playing in...and every woman should, even if it does make us all a little uncomfortable.
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