Work plus weekend

I got a promotion on Friday. The pay raise, etc that comes with it does not take effect until by this time next month, so my excitement is a tad delayed, but inevitably, I got a promotion and they took us to lunch today to celebrate it. It's a little interesting and daunting at the same time because now, I have to live up to expectation and I am not so good at that. But I just thought I'd mention it in here since I always seem to harp on the bad news, and the angst, let me for once announce the good news and bask in it for a little bit. I guess the excitement will kick in by this time next month but for now this is it. So yay to me!!!

Apart from that my weekend was just blah! I got my hair highlighted on Friday and the saloon took all my money so I didn't have any leftover to entertain myself. So I had pretty hair but I had to stay indoors. Watch out next week, my hair is jacked up and I would want to take it out. Besides it was Mother's Day weekend so we had to save our money for decent family outings.

My guy from 2 weeks ago did not call me or text me and I did not call or text either. I am a grown woman, if men choose not to call me, it's their loss not mine, it's not like they are contributing to my success in anyway, they haven't offered to pay my rent, cellphone bill, nothing, or even buy me dinner. So it's their loss. You just think after all these years dating will be different, that men will act differently when they are of a certain age, but nope they are still the same childish mofos as we left them in our twenties. That was actually the last time I had sex when I was 29. It's just sad. Hopefully, this new "waiting" period won't take as long as 4 years, even if it means me picking up someone at a bar like the other single women my age. I will do that. And I won't even take his number, just keep it simple. I don't know you, don't care to, I am sure you might be a nice guy but I am sure you don't give a shit if you are nice or not. It's time we played their game. I am sure he is thinking, I must be home thinking about him, or something. No Motherfucker, I thought to myself, this guy is fucking ugly, cheap and conceited, and he thinks my thighs are fat and most importantly, he is in love with his ex-girlfriend. I do not need to have sex with him any longer than I need to, I don't even want to be his friend. Enough is enough.

Enough is enough with this update. This was supposed to be a happy update, to talk about work not being so blah! for once. I am such an angry bitter woman. Make it stop!